Relationships are formed between two people that are attracted to each other in a romantic way. The first thing in any relationship is attr...


Relationships are formed between two people that are attracted to each other in a romantic way. The first thing in any relationship is attraction, it might be emotional or physical attraction which other feelings such as loyalty and commitment might develop later or not. Most people do not really know why they keep going back to someone whom they are very aware will break them, they may try to explain it to people who constantly taunt an oppose their relationship but they never get it, Well here are list of the reasons why we are attracted to someone we shouldn’t be ;
1. You think you can help
Don’t think that you can change anyone that is emotionally unstable or have other issues, you might care about the person but it is not in your power to change someone without having the right experience when it comes to dealing with people in such problems. A human can not be your experiment, You might shower them with affection as much as you can but at the end, they might not want to change and maybe you shouldn’t try.
2. You think that it’s not them, it’s you
People always take all factors into consideration when a relationship is at the edge of breaking. Your partner might make you think that it’s all you and you might eventually reach a point when you think that they might be right, but how often can they be right and you be wrong? A relationship is based on mutual efforts and you can be blamed for somethings but if the relationship is breaking then it can’t be just you irrespective of what you might be led to believe.
3. You can relate to them
There might be something that makes you see yourself in your partner, you might think they understand you and you know how they are feeling but you can’t relate to them and you can’t fully understand their problems nor can they fully understand yours. This does not mean you should get out of the relationship and leave them to their problems, rather you need to realize that when a person has problems they are not in a state to form a relationship.
4. Others compel you to go back
This shouldn’t even be a reason but it’s actually one of the main reasons. A relationship is formed by two people, less or more people doesn’t make it a relationship. You often go to someone for consolation when you breakup with someone which is natural, but sometimes your circles would be restricted to people who would favor your partner over you and would reignite feelings which you had to suppress to break up with them in the first place and you will go back.
5. You think that what you two have is love
Love is indescribable and sometimes you might confuse love for attraction or sometimes you might think that what’s holding you in the relationship is love even if it is not. If you constantly second guess yourself when you think that you love your partner, then it is not love. Most times we do not accept that what made us form a relationship isn’t there anymore and we think that the right thing to do is stay in the relationship since they love us.